18+ Sex, Sex Everywhere! 18+

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I have heard many times that porn addicts (and sex addicts as well of course) tend to see sex everywhere and tend being more driven sexually than others without these conditions. 

Why is it like that? Why are we busy so much with sex everywhere we are? Why do we see only sex everywhere?

My experience is not different. 

Seeing girls on the street and analyzing them all. Looking at them except on a strongly objectifying way. How I would get them, how their breasts could look like, are they sluts or not, when they could have sex the last time, are they fckd by many or not, etc. 

Specializing sexual tastes:

The more time you spend with porn the more your taste in sex and porn will be specialized. You are seeing hundreds, thousands of women on the internet and unconsciously you rate everyone and everything you see. You know every time you check out new videos if you like it or not. You get used to look at women on a rating way. 

What does a porn addict need?

We need to see and to touch (our genitals). We need to see the girls, guys, scenes that get us horny and if we see those we feel the urge to touch ourselves. The one does not exist without the other. 

So what a porn addict needs for a session:  

1. Seeing (the women, scene or whatever he seeks in the video’s)

2. Touching (masturbating)

Don't forget that you as a porn addict can see on the screen everything you want to see. You are seeking girls on the screen even for hours in some cases. So what if you get out of your house? Why are you still horny if you´re not home in front of your safe and well known screen?

Because you meet girls everywhere. You come in contact with girls on the street, at school, work, everywhere. Your brain is used to "the seeking" and to the dopamine-rush that belongs to it. It is exciting and you never know what you get "on the next page". You never know if you meet someone you find sexy. Your brain has to be prepared for the moment that the perfect girl is in front of you, just like on the screen.

What does that mean?

It means that from the seeing and touching I mentioned before, you always, no matter where you are, have "seeing" with you (but of course you can’t jerk off everywhere). Therefore, you are seeking girls at every moment of the day even you are not masturbating. Why? Because your brain is used to it at your pc. 

Better said: you trained your brain and mind for that. With jerking off to porn you gave and give time to something and invest energy in something that you are improving, just like you can improve everything with attention en time investment. 

You brain is used to that this is the way for you to feel good, that it gets the needed dopamine on this way. So it just want to be ready to welcome the new scenario.

So you see a nice girl on the street and you get the urge to jerk off. And this is the ONLY thought you get. You don't even think about if that could be a nice person or not, how old she could be, what she is up to, it is not a human being for you. It is an object that can lead to an orgasm. 

Being unable to think except about these things and not being able to recognise other perspectives of everything around you. There exists nothing else, only sex and pretty women. 

And it is nothing else than being in a prison of an urge.